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    Nikki and Jen

    “What We Are” is an online blog community for woman of all walks of life to share unfiltered stories and experiences on various issues women face today. We invite you to tuck away your glossy Instagram selfie. Take a deep breath and show up as you are. #NoFilterRequired

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February 2018

An Open Letter Of Love To Our Child: Jen Dede
February 19, 2018

I have dreamt about our child in a recurring dream for years. In it, my hands are outstretched toward their plump, little, dimpled hands. A deep blue sky is behind us as we first float toward each other, then past […]

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Adoption  / Family  / Fertility  / Love  / Love & Relationships

Atomic Moms Podcast: Body Conscious | Open Heart Surgery, Fertility, Friendship
February 7, 2018

Catch us on Atomic Moms Podcast by Ellie Knaus! “Friends Nikki DeLoach (Awkward) and Jen Dede (Shameless) have supported each other through hell and back and aren’t afraid to crack a joke about it. They speak candidly about Jen’s 8 […]

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Body Image  / Fertility  / Motherhood  / Podcast

Love is our teacher: Wendy Haines
February 5, 2018

My journey with love has been vast, tumultuous, painful and healing in this life. I could write a hundred BLOGs on the subject. A chapter for each phase of growth and learning that love has gifted me with. But I […]

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Love  / Love & Relationships

Astrology Questionnaire
February 2, 2018

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A Dose of Woo Woo  / Astrology  / Video

Jen’s Astrology Chart
February 2, 2018

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A Dose of Woo Woo  / Astrology  / Video

Nikki’s Astrology Chart
February 2, 2018

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A Dose of Woo Woo  / Astrology  / Spirituality  / Video

Astrology Charts with Julia Elizabeth Day
February 2, 2018

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A Dose of Woo Woo  / Astrology  / Spirituality  / Video



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