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    “What We Are” is an online blog community for woman of all walks of life to share unfiltered stories and experiences on various issues women face today. We invite you to tuck away your glossy Instagram selfie. Take a deep breath and show up as you are. #NoFilterRequired

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February 2019

WHITE MOM IN THE MINORITY: Alexandra Safford
February 26, 2019

“I move through the world always and most particularly as a white person, I have a white frame of reference, and I have a white experience. And part of being white is to have that be invisible to us and […]

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Family  / Love  / Motherhood

I’M JEN LILLEY AND I HAVE A DREAM: JEN LILLEY
February 5, 2019

This month’s theme is “Affairs of the Heart”, and I thought, what greater affair exists than your deepest and wildest dreams?  You know, that childlike dream you have that is larger than life, or at least, larger than you; the […]

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Adoption  / Family  / Love  / Motherhood



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